The Love Process
The Relationship Site
Based on Personality
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Compatibility Is Happiness
To develop a long term relationship, people need to relate. Getting to know someone and understand them, that is The Love Process.
How Does The Love Process Work?
To help you find compatibility, The Love Process uses the system of nine interconnected personality types known as the Enneagram. [FAQ]
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First, learn more about your personality and compatible personalities.

Next, search for matches and learn about what motivates them & why.

Ready to meet? Start a conversation by clicking "Send a Like!"
Dating
The Right Way
Prioritize compatibility,
using personality typing,
to find true, lasting love.

  • Know yourself
  • Love yourself
  • Know your partner
The Love Process
Built On Intent
For $10/month, and no extra charges, join and meet others looking for a relationship based on compatibility.

The membership fee at TLP is a feature designed to attract real people serious about finding love, while deterring fake profiles.
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Why Join?
You're Worth It
Invest in your future happiness.
Join to meet quality singles
who are also investing
   in themselves.


TLP's Story

Over the years, the founder of TLP winked, liked, swiped, and messaged countless people. But after a few messages, or dates, interest from one person or the other usually stopped.

It became clear that no amount of physical attraction, or even emotional connection, could be the basis of a long term relationship because relationships are built on compatibility.

The process of finding love is not easy but The Love Process makes it easier. Using personality types, know yourself better. Understand others. Find happiness together.   

Your Stories
"The Love Process works!
Knowing our personality types gave us the confidence we were a good match.

And we were! Thank you TLP."

- Evan & Richard
We can't wait to hear about your love story. Join now!
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Heart artNext Steps
It all starts with knowing you.

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1  Answer a few multiple choice questions about your personality. [FAQ]
 2  Purchase the 3 month special*, a $30 value for $25, and all future monthly membership fees are waived.
 3  Provide a description of yourself along with two photos.
* Limited time offer while TLP is a new service.
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