The Love Process
The Relationship Site
Focused on Personality
Meet people you click with.™
Happiness Is Compatibility
To develop a long term relationship, people need to relate. Getting to know someone and understand them, that is The Love Process.
How Does The Love Process Work?
The Love Process uses the system of nine interconnected personality types known as the Enneagram. [FAQ]
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First, start with better matches by searching for people with personalities compatible to your own.

Next, get to know your matches by understanding their personality;
what motivates them & why?

When you're ready, start a conversation by clicking "Send a Like!"
The way to

someone's heart

-- is through yours.
The Love Process
Built On Intent
For $10/month, and no extra charges, join and meet others looking for a relationship based on compatibility.

The membership fee at TLP is a feature designed to attract real people serious about finding love, while deterring fake profiles.
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Why Join?
You're Worth It
Invest in yourself and your future.
Join to meet quality singles
who are also investing
   in themselves.

TLP's Story

Over the years, the founder of TLP winked, liked, swiped, and messaged countless people. But after a few messages, or dates, interest from one person or the other usually stopped.

It became clear that no amount of physical attraction, or even emotional connection, could be the basis of a long term relationship because relationships are built on compatibility.

The process of finding love is not easy but The Love Process makes it easier. Using personality types, know yourself better. Understand others. Find happiness together.   

Your Stories
Heart artNext Steps
It all starts with knowing you.

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1  Answer a few multiple choice questions about your personality. [FAQ]
2  Purchase the 3 month special*, a $30 value for $25, and all future monthly membership fees are waived.
3  Provide a description of yourself along with two photos.
* Limited time offer while TLP is a new service.